Nothing wrong with Chivalry and Romantic Courtly Love when it's appreciated. Don't call being a doormat being Chivalry or Romantic.[
Men have been trained to behave like this thinking it's the right thing to do. Avoid conflict ect....
The damage done by Chivalry and Romantic Courtly Love is impossible to express in words or quantify statistically. The only way out is education.. Most guys haven't ever questioned their beliefs.
Read the Manipulated Man by ester vilar. You can download it online.