...considered setting up a decoy? What if you were to get a friend who your spouse doesn't know, and had that friend hit on your spouse? Just to find out their reaction. Is this a mean, low down, dirty thing to do, or am I on to something? And even if you did it, how would you confront your spouse. I just thought this would be an interesting discussion. I don't think I could go through with it, but I'm curious what people think of it.