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After reading the book I printed out the Questionnaire, one for my wife and one for me and anxiously waited for my wife to finish her round of the book so we could get some real communicating going on. I couldn't wait any longer so I filled mine out and waited.........and waited.
AND am still waiting for my wife to finish reading the book. She had stopped after finding out about the questionnare. She said that it is a test for me to make judgements about her. She has 25 pages left of the book and refuses to finish it or fill out the questionnaire. My questionnaire is dated August 28...
She refuses to talk without a middle man present, ie MC. She just stonewalls me for the most part. I told her I will not drop the coin on a MC until we atleast give the easy stuff a try like reading the books and talking about them together.
Unfortunately for her this time span has given me a chance to analyze my feelings more and her unwillingness to even do such a simple step for us says alot to me.
AND am still waiting for my wife to finish reading the book. She had stopped after finding out about the questionnare. She said that it is a test for me to make judgements about her. She has 25 pages left of the book and refuses to finish it or fill out the questionnaire. My questionnaire is dated August 28...
She refuses to talk without a middle man present, ie MC. She just stonewalls me for the most part. I told her I will not drop the coin on a MC until we atleast give the easy stuff a try like reading the books and talking about them together.
Unfortunately for her this time span has given me a chance to analyze my feelings more and her unwillingness to even do such a simple step for us says alot to me.