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Basically, my wife is a larger woman and has a low sex drive, never talks dirty, no movies, no toys, sex once every 2 weeks, and you get the idea.
I weight train and have a high sex drive, love to talk dirty, watch movies, toys, oils, sex almost every day and sometimes, 2 - 4 times a day, if my wife was similar like me.
Anyway, 2 weeks again of no sex, wife and I don't talk or do much together, room mates but no fighting. She goes to bed early, 9pm, Friday night. I come to bed later and start kissing her neck and ears, working my way down to her breasts and mid section. She rolls over and I start going down on her and I was down there for at least 20 minutes. She loved it!!! She told me she was so close to climaxing but that it's been quite the while, she didn't. We then did it together and I got her on top, 69 even though she was reluctant. I started pleasing her and she tried to squim away, so I grabbed her butt hard. She went crazy and couldn't even please me on the side. She got close to climaxing again but was already exhausted. Then we finished off, we'll I finished off.
That was 1 hour later............
To get your woman in that horny state of mind, to be in the mood, that is the hard part I've been trying to figure out for 13 years or marriage.
I've asked her, you want to try anal? She immediately says NO, exit only. I asked her, did you have a bad experience from the past? She tells me, no but it's still exit only. How do you know you'll hate it if you've never tried???
At least she is open to me having her feet. I like them because they're very soft, not because of the smell, taste or anything else.
Any advice on how to get your woman in the mood more? That's the million dollar question!!!
Today, I took the day off work for a holiday. Wife will come home, no dishes to do, kitchen clean, cat food and litter good, mail and newspaper good and fridge cleaned out. I will probably order food from her fav restaurant as a surprise before she gets home too.
Would that get a woman more in the mood or is it just a nice surprise and nothing else?:smthumbup:
I weight train and have a high sex drive, love to talk dirty, watch movies, toys, oils, sex almost every day and sometimes, 2 - 4 times a day, if my wife was similar like me.
Anyway, 2 weeks again of no sex, wife and I don't talk or do much together, room mates but no fighting. She goes to bed early, 9pm, Friday night. I come to bed later and start kissing her neck and ears, working my way down to her breasts and mid section. She rolls over and I start going down on her and I was down there for at least 20 minutes. She loved it!!! She told me she was so close to climaxing but that it's been quite the while, she didn't. We then did it together and I got her on top, 69 even though she was reluctant. I started pleasing her and she tried to squim away, so I grabbed her butt hard. She went crazy and couldn't even please me on the side. She got close to climaxing again but was already exhausted. Then we finished off, we'll I finished off.
That was 1 hour later............
To get your woman in that horny state of mind, to be in the mood, that is the hard part I've been trying to figure out for 13 years or marriage.
I've asked her, you want to try anal? She immediately says NO, exit only. I asked her, did you have a bad experience from the past? She tells me, no but it's still exit only. How do you know you'll hate it if you've never tried???
At least she is open to me having her feet. I like them because they're very soft, not because of the smell, taste or anything else.
Any advice on how to get your woman in the mood more? That's the million dollar question!!!
Today, I took the day off work for a holiday. Wife will come home, no dishes to do, kitchen clean, cat food and litter good, mail and newspaper good and fridge cleaned out. I will probably order food from her fav restaurant as a surprise before she gets home too.
Would that get a woman more in the mood or is it just a nice surprise and nothing else?:smthumbup: