OK so it has been almost three years together and it had been a lot of fighting. Too much fighting.
Why do we fight?
Beats me...
No really, my wife fights all the time whether I am speaking or not, reading a book, or watching TV. She says I irritate her, even when doing nothing at all. So she blows up at me and continues to escalate. Two days later she will tell me she loves me and apologize. Next day she will do it all over again. Back and forth, back and forth.
I have had enough.
I have been patient with her, as friends and the MC told me to be. I have been so patient. However I am not going to spend the next five years waiting for my wife to get rid of her 46 years of accumulated insecurities and other issues that cause her to start fights all the time.
This is her first marriage
She waited till 43 to say yes
She was a player
She complains she has no life now
She want's "space"
She complains about my daughter visiting on weekends only to says she loves her the next day
She is very very jealous though I barely have any female friends. Well none really anymore.
What has been stopping me?
Well - I love her; I am a romantic.
Additionally my daughter loves her.
Oh and we work together; but fortunately she may be transferred soon.
Over time I have learned that love is not everything; that she does not want to be married and I cannot change that no matter how hard I try.
It's time to take charge and do what I have to do, no matter how much it hurts....
Why do we fight?
Beats me...
No really, my wife fights all the time whether I am speaking or not, reading a book, or watching TV. She says I irritate her, even when doing nothing at all. So she blows up at me and continues to escalate. Two days later she will tell me she loves me and apologize. Next day she will do it all over again. Back and forth, back and forth.
I have had enough.
I have been patient with her, as friends and the MC told me to be. I have been so patient. However I am not going to spend the next five years waiting for my wife to get rid of her 46 years of accumulated insecurities and other issues that cause her to start fights all the time.
This is her first marriage
She waited till 43 to say yes
She was a player
She complains she has no life now
She want's "space"
She complains about my daughter visiting on weekends only to says she loves her the next day
She is very very jealous though I barely have any female friends. Well none really anymore.
What has been stopping me?
Well - I love her; I am a romantic.
Additionally my daughter loves her.
Oh and we work together; but fortunately she may be transferred soon.
Over time I have learned that love is not everything; that she does not want to be married and I cannot change that no matter how hard I try.
It's time to take charge and do what I have to do, no matter how much it hurts....