I'm looking to get some idea of how guys think here. Had a little issue come up which got me thinking...
Earlier on, me and hubz went out for tea. I was wearing a playsuit, with a cardigan, black tights and mid-length boots. I had my coat on over it. Thing is, my coat is mid-thigh length and buttoned up over my playsuit, well, makes it look like I don't really have anything on underneath. But I really do!
Hubz said something on the way to the pub. Paraphrased, it went like how I really shouldn't wear stuff like that, because people will think I'm slvtty, and it really doesn't suit me. I was taken aback because I've worn this outfit a few times, and believe me I am NOT looking to give off that vibe at all. To me, it was a cute outfit I dressed up for winter, and I didn't really think about the coat thing, I suppose because I know I am wearing something decent under it.
Got in the pub, sat down. Hubz told me, see, I told you, some guy was eyeing up your legs, I shot him the daggers to let him know I clocked him. Said again how I shouldn't wear stuff like that. Commented on a pencil-skirt dress I wore last week where he said I looked beautiful (didn't know he had an opinion as generally he doesn't really say.)
I was mulling it over as we chatted. Random chit-chat. He mentioned he'd watched a Transformers film after I fell asleep, got talking about Megan Fox after he gave a "look" when he mentioned her name. I said I didn't know he liked her.
Got back to the dress issue. I highlighted that I found it odd that he thought Miss Fox was rather nice when she goes round generally looking rather, well, slvtty, yet he says *I* look slvtty and that is BAD.
I was told there is a WORLD of difference. That it is a matter of respect. That basically it is okay for him to think that about her. But there is no way he wants to think that about me.
Okay guys... I think I get it. Just give me some clarity and insight into this thinking.
Earlier on, me and hubz went out for tea. I was wearing a playsuit, with a cardigan, black tights and mid-length boots. I had my coat on over it. Thing is, my coat is mid-thigh length and buttoned up over my playsuit, well, makes it look like I don't really have anything on underneath. But I really do!
Hubz said something on the way to the pub. Paraphrased, it went like how I really shouldn't wear stuff like that, because people will think I'm slvtty, and it really doesn't suit me. I was taken aback because I've worn this outfit a few times, and believe me I am NOT looking to give off that vibe at all. To me, it was a cute outfit I dressed up for winter, and I didn't really think about the coat thing, I suppose because I know I am wearing something decent under it.
Got in the pub, sat down. Hubz told me, see, I told you, some guy was eyeing up your legs, I shot him the daggers to let him know I clocked him. Said again how I shouldn't wear stuff like that. Commented on a pencil-skirt dress I wore last week where he said I looked beautiful (didn't know he had an opinion as generally he doesn't really say.)
I was mulling it over as we chatted. Random chit-chat. He mentioned he'd watched a Transformers film after I fell asleep, got talking about Megan Fox after he gave a "look" when he mentioned her name. I said I didn't know he liked her.
Got back to the dress issue. I highlighted that I found it odd that he thought Miss Fox was rather nice when she goes round generally looking rather, well, slvtty, yet he says *I* look slvtty and that is BAD.
I was told there is a WORLD of difference. That it is a matter of respect. That basically it is okay for him to think that about her. But there is no way he wants to think that about me.
Okay guys... I think I get it. Just give me some clarity and insight into this thinking.