I've been married for 12 tooo LOOONNG years. My husband in the last 3years was officially told by Emory Univ. doctors he is a sufferer of major deppression and anxiety. Not surprised about that given his behavior and his mom was told she was bordlerline personalities. I have a 10yr old son who has Aspergers and that I home school and he displays certain traits of anger. I'm suffering from illness myself and I cannot live my life this way. Its like having two overly needy kids. Literally my husband requires I tuck him in at night since he goes to bed early.
We agreed to get a divorce we tried marriage counseling 3times, two times spirtual and the last through insurance. When we came to the 3rd counsler. He asked what happened the other times? DH said oh I thought she would learn love and accept things as they were. I was emotionally done and on top of things he chocked me over a fight we had about him setting up dating profiles on the computer.
I was walking by him when he kicked me and when I told him to apologoze he said he didnt need to say sorry to a ***** he hated. I was fed up and told him if he didnt I would pour the the glass of tea I was holding into the computer. He said I wouldnt bc i wasnt ****... and so I did. Then he lept up and slammed me to our bed to choke me. when 2mts of counsling went by the man said he thought we should seperate and divorce. He said to my husband that everyone has an emotional line that once crossed their is no returning from. And weither he was sorry or not he could not control ever getting my love back . He said bc of my past dealings with violence it seemed only right I'd be cut off from him and felt that I would be emotional fine with out him. But told my husband to go to Emory Hospital bc he felt he needed help.
I thought him seeking help would help him be mentally strong enough to handle things. But now he wants to neogatite me not divorcing saying lifes not perfect and that I should accept things and him. And I cant I dont hate him but being near him and his yo yo moods is what I cant take. He has road rage so bad that he gets out and pounds on ppls cars , if he speeds and I ask him to slow down he will yell that its car and tell me to shut the F..k up. He has snatched my sunglasses off my face and thrown into the highway.
I just found out this week he isnt taking his medications any longer and is pursuing getting a gun. And now I'm very nervous. I contacted his doctor to inform him that he wasnt on his meds. and to ask him if his mental illness would stop him from getting a gun? Because I needed to begin planning what i should do or options I have. I asked him how concerned I should be? But it was like I couldnt get anywhere with his doctor. So Im my own. I sent out notes basically summerizing things and saying if something happens to me or my son it was my husband that caused it . There were noterized to my cousin and sister and emails along with previous photos of bruises
I dont know what steps I should take. I'm considering getting a permit. I just need to move on with my life
We agreed to get a divorce we tried marriage counseling 3times, two times spirtual and the last through insurance. When we came to the 3rd counsler. He asked what happened the other times? DH said oh I thought she would learn love and accept things as they were. I was emotionally done and on top of things he chocked me over a fight we had about him setting up dating profiles on the computer.
I was walking by him when he kicked me and when I told him to apologoze he said he didnt need to say sorry to a ***** he hated. I was fed up and told him if he didnt I would pour the the glass of tea I was holding into the computer. He said I wouldnt bc i wasnt ****... and so I did. Then he lept up and slammed me to our bed to choke me. when 2mts of counsling went by the man said he thought we should seperate and divorce. He said to my husband that everyone has an emotional line that once crossed their is no returning from. And weither he was sorry or not he could not control ever getting my love back . He said bc of my past dealings with violence it seemed only right I'd be cut off from him and felt that I would be emotional fine with out him. But told my husband to go to Emory Hospital bc he felt he needed help.
I thought him seeking help would help him be mentally strong enough to handle things. But now he wants to neogatite me not divorcing saying lifes not perfect and that I should accept things and him. And I cant I dont hate him but being near him and his yo yo moods is what I cant take. He has road rage so bad that he gets out and pounds on ppls cars , if he speeds and I ask him to slow down he will yell that its car and tell me to shut the F..k up. He has snatched my sunglasses off my face and thrown into the highway.
I just found out this week he isnt taking his medications any longer and is pursuing getting a gun. And now I'm very nervous. I contacted his doctor to inform him that he wasnt on his meds. and to ask him if his mental illness would stop him from getting a gun? Because I needed to begin planning what i should do or options I have. I asked him how concerned I should be? But it was like I couldnt get anywhere with his doctor. So Im my own. I sent out notes basically summerizing things and saying if something happens to me or my son it was my husband that caused it . There were noterized to my cousin and sister and emails along with previous photos of bruises
I dont know what steps I should take. I'm considering getting a permit. I just need to move on with my life