I'm the dumbest person alive. I am a big advocate of each spouse being in charge of their own finances etc. and have always trusted that no matter what, my husband wouldn't be a total jerk. I failed at the first and was wrong about the second. I've been a stay at home mom for about 2 years. No money of my own. I work freelance and bring in less than 10k. This year a little more. We are broke, I use that money and every penny before and after to pay bills. We live in an expensive city and his salary basically barely covers hills and necessities. We don't go out, splurge, etc. he wants out. I want out. He had an EA and I think a PA but he won't admit. I have no idea how to go about figuring out finances, taxes, taking my name off things? Etc. any guidance would be awesome. Thanks.