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I'm trying to find us a new marriage counselor and it's been a PITA. Our first one caused more damage than good. She's the one that told me in front of him I didn't need to know any details, all I needed to know was that he cheated. Thus, here I am a year later still getting trickle truth and comments from him like, all you need to know is I cheated. 
Anyway, he told me this morning to look up marriage counselors. I've been looking on the computer for over two hours. I have an IC who will see us together, but we both agree we need something more. Our insurance won't pay for marriage counseling so we wasted over $1,000 on the first one we saw. I'm trying to pick carefully...
I have found a couple that specialize in the Gottman approach? Anyone know anything about this?
I don't want to go back to another counselor who puts the blame on me and he comes out feeling justified and like he doesn't have to disclose any information. Get my drift?
Anyway, he told me this morning to look up marriage counselors. I've been looking on the computer for over two hours. I have an IC who will see us together, but we both agree we need something more. Our insurance won't pay for marriage counseling so we wasted over $1,000 on the first one we saw. I'm trying to pick carefully...
I have found a couple that specialize in the Gottman approach? Anyone know anything about this?
I don't want to go back to another counselor who puts the blame on me and he comes out feeling justified and like he doesn't have to disclose any information. Get my drift?