I just joined this site yesterday. I am a Christian male, 65 years old and have been married to my high school sweetheart for 46 years. I am retired but I do some financial counseling as a ministry. I am a spontaneous desire husband and my wife is responsive desire so I am always on the lookout for something new, some adventure, something I can share with my spouse to drive more intimacy, pleasure and excitement in our marriage. I would love it if she would do the same but that is just not her personality so it's not going to happen. So that's why I'm here. I also hope to contribute by encouraging others and helping people avoid some of the mistakes that I've made in my marriage.