I've been married for three years. I completely disrespected my husband and he ended up sleeping with a one night stand. He said he was sorry but a year later i was still hurt by it. I asked him to go to marital counseling and he said no so i moved out just to be away for awhile thinking it would make him see he would want to go to MC. Since i said i wanted some time apart but still meet once a week for coffee to keep in contact he said he wanted a 90 day no contact seperation and that we would meet on sept 15 to see if he wants to still be married. He said at the time he was 50/50. He just wasn't sure what he wanted. I know he's been talking to three other women (we are both 30 yrs old) but i dont know if he's slept with them. I'm am following his wishes on doing no contact which is so hard. Will he come back to me? Is it normal for men who are seperated to go out and talk to a bunch of women? How do i get him back? Please any advise is helpful!