Im in a 3 year marriage with a new baby. Our marriage has been on the rocks way before the baby came along but we still stayed together. But now Im feeling ignored, unloved, and unhappy. I have informed my spouse of these feelings and the things he does to allow me to feel this way. But his response is always nonchalant and he continues to act nonchalant. I even try to offer to do romantic quality time events with him in the house and he always says hes going to sleep after I noticed him watching tv before I even asked the question or its always im arguing to prevent from doing anything. We sleep in seperate beds and I feel like Im single in my marriage. We dont go anywhere and he never wants to do anything together. Im getting tired of being ignored and feeling alone. The only reason Im here now is for my child to have both parents. It seems like when I try he ignores me and tells me no all the time how can you be in a marriage and dont feel loved. He doesnt do anything he did when we first got together and I told him that but he still says I want him to do what I want him to do. I dont know im hurt I dont know who to talk to and he doesnt want to go to couseling its his way or no way and if he doesnt want to talk which is all the time he ignores me and it is very dissapointing and i believe Im becomeing meaner and meaner Im starting to hate him and he doesnt even care. Im starting to see y people cheat becausce you tell the person what they doing wrong in the relationship and they still ignore you its a slap in the face. Im ready to leave him but not in the right financial state to do it alone then again im trying to make it work only to be shut down everytime!!