I'm a SaHM. We're broke, I have no savings, we live an expensive city, I'm broken. I don't know what job I want but clearly need one. I was doing ok when we were divorcing because of the affair and differences, I'm not ok we are divorcing because he doesn't love me now. Or that people are standing on the sideline and letting this happen. It makes me feel that he is right, I'm not an attractive or wanted person. I feel like **** today. Someone tell me I can be OK, I can get a good job and support myself and my child and that somehow it's be fine. Anyone had to rebuild from scratch with little family support? You OK now? I know I'm partly accountable for the failure of this relationship but someone tell me this is not my fault! That I didn't deserve this.