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My gf of 5 months is on vacation with her ex; on a trip she originally invited me to go on. Before meeting up with him, and flying out, she sends me a chat message that she loves me and wished i was there through Google chat ( we use that instead of texting on our phones) and then she signs off!! She has been signed off for the whole night and morning and now I'm just livid.
I feel so disrespected, foolish and don't even know where to begin to address this with her. She clearly did not want to be disturbed when meeting up with him, clearly that is the case but is there any hope for a relationship that this occurs in???
I feel its not, am I overreacting?
I need advice on how to respond as well, I am livid right now and don't want to overreact.
Please give me your thoughts...Thank you.
EDIT 1:
Going dark, cutting off communication:
Facebook unfriended
Instagram blocked
Google+ photo album blocked
Number deleted
Hitting the gym
Lawyering up
wait wut
EDIT 2:
OK, phonecall number 1 incoming...
voicemail transcript
I feel so disrespected, foolish and don't even know where to begin to address this with her. She clearly did not want to be disturbed when meeting up with him, clearly that is the case but is there any hope for a relationship that this occurs in???
I feel its not, am I overreacting?
I need advice on how to respond as well, I am livid right now and don't want to overreact.
Please give me your thoughts...Thank you.
EDIT 1:
Going dark, cutting off communication:
Facebook unfriended
Instagram blocked
Google+ photo album blocked
Number deleted
Hitting the gym
Lawyering up
wait wut
EDIT 2:
OK, phonecall number 1 incoming...
voicemail transcript
Hey imjustlost. So I woke up today find myself seemingly deleted from your life I think there was no explanation. I'm sure we'll talk about this. Because I'm deleted from your life with no explanation.