A couple months ago, my wife was working far away, and I had to send her some stuff.
I bought her two inexpensive vibrators off Ebay and sent them and some spare batteries (where she was, batteries are VERY expensive).
She got all angry and irritated at me. But, after weeks went by she finally opened them... And did nothing.
And weeks later... she actually started trying them out.
I thought it strange that she said she never masturbated when we were separated... And she didn't. She was caught by her mother when she was about 12 or so (first time trying it) and her mother just threw a fit. I didn't know this until a day ago. It always bothered me, I just never imagined it was from a prudish parent ( Mine were EXTREMELY SO, but I hold no such reservations) influencing her.
Now, she's changing her attitudes a bit, but I notice she still has many things going in her mind that relate to her long-held self prohibitions against freely indulging in anything that feels good sexually. She's come quite a ways. She actually got out the vibrator and used it to show me how she likes it and then kept on while I gently did many other stimulating things. She's finally made it past that big hangup.
Still wondering what I can do to get her to stop resisting her own wants ( still doing it...).
Any ideas or suggestions appreciated.
I bought her two inexpensive vibrators off Ebay and sent them and some spare batteries (where she was, batteries are VERY expensive).
She got all angry and irritated at me. But, after weeks went by she finally opened them... And did nothing.
And weeks later... she actually started trying them out.
I thought it strange that she said she never masturbated when we were separated... And she didn't. She was caught by her mother when she was about 12 or so (first time trying it) and her mother just threw a fit. I didn't know this until a day ago. It always bothered me, I just never imagined it was from a prudish parent ( Mine were EXTREMELY SO, but I hold no such reservations) influencing her.
Now, she's changing her attitudes a bit, but I notice she still has many things going in her mind that relate to her long-held self prohibitions against freely indulging in anything that feels good sexually. She's come quite a ways. She actually got out the vibrator and used it to show me how she likes it and then kept on while I gently did many other stimulating things. She's finally made it past that big hangup.
Still wondering what I can do to get her to stop resisting her own wants ( still doing it...).
Any ideas or suggestions appreciated.