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We just moved 2 weeks ago and my H transferred within his existing company, just to a new branch. Our focus is on raising our 4 year old kids and getting his own business going at some point in next few years, but any way you look at it, timewise we are slammed as we have quite a bit of other responsibilities to tend to around here.
Yesterday, he wants to know what I think about him tagging along with his new boss to go hunting. Number one, H is a convicted felon... So even tagging along with someone who is shooting a gun would be questionable in my book, besides he's never even expressed an interest in hunting. So then he explains that he thinks it would be good "bonding" for employment opportunities further in the company, etc. Just this weekend, me.. his wife.. complained about our lack of time together, alone, to just have adult time... WTF is he talking about time alone with this dude?? Not to mention, we are talking about getting his own business going, which takes a lot of focus away from us to begin with.. but I do understand that.
He's never hung out one one one with a guy during our marriage... I did catch him browsing bi/gay stuff online once and he said it was as a "joke".. we worked through it, and I don't believe for a second it was as a "joke". But whatever.
Am I really just a nut, like he says?
Yesterday, he wants to know what I think about him tagging along with his new boss to go hunting. Number one, H is a convicted felon... So even tagging along with someone who is shooting a gun would be questionable in my book, besides he's never even expressed an interest in hunting. So then he explains that he thinks it would be good "bonding" for employment opportunities further in the company, etc. Just this weekend, me.. his wife.. complained about our lack of time together, alone, to just have adult time... WTF is he talking about time alone with this dude?? Not to mention, we are talking about getting his own business going, which takes a lot of focus away from us to begin with.. but I do understand that.
He's never hung out one one one with a guy during our marriage... I did catch him browsing bi/gay stuff online once and he said it was as a "joke".. we worked through it, and I don't believe for a second it was as a "joke". But whatever.
Am I really just a nut, like he says?