How do I get my husband to be willing to talk things through with me? Our marriage is on the downfall, and it's all because he can't talk to me about problems we are having. When I tell him something that is bothering or troubling me, he gets defensive and everything turns into a fight. We have been arguing or bickering at least once a day, and I'm getting to the end. I offered a seperation to him last night, because maybe we both just need our space, but he just got mad at the idea, and starting telling me he knew it was because of other guys. He is an extremely jealous person, and tells me that I talk to SOOO many guys, when I've got one guy friend that I see maybe once every 2-3 months. I need advice with how to deal, or let him know how I'm feeling without fearing getting my head bit off!