No kids. I think you have the right person in mind. And yes, I would want to be able to maintain atleast a friendly relationship if we got divorced. She is an important person in my life, you don't just throw those important people out of your life completely.With or without kids?
I know you want kids, but are you wanting to also remain friends with your wife if you divorce her?
(I am sorry if I have you confused with someone else... I *think* I remember your story...)
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Friendly but not friends.My stbxw has told me several times that should she decide she wants to go through with divorce she still wants us to be friends and all "for our daughter". Should that happen I'll be civil to her and friendly yes, but will I be an actual "friend" of hers? No, just doesn't work out like that.
I'd have to go with this. My Stbx wants to remain friends, but I somehow doubt I will be hanging out with her and doing the kind of stuff you do with a friend. Of course I was the one dumped and rejected so I'm sure that plays into it.Friendly but not friends..
Exactly. Even now when I'm around her I'm not being myself and trying to look, act and be something I imagine she wants me to be to win her back, Aka the 180.I just don't see how remaining close to my stbxw would be healthy for me. I think some part of me would always be trying to win her back in that situation.