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So, my exH and I have finally come to the "ok, let's be decent to each other finally" stage. I think it's great because we have a daughter together and I grew up with D parents that DID NOT get along.
Well, my exH invited me and my bf (dating 4 months now) to his house for dinner. I talked to my bf about it. He is not at all acceptable of this. He said to me "I don't mind going to events for your kid and us all being together, but I'm not getting all buddy buddy with your exH". I explained how my life was growing up and let him know that it sucked.
Has anyone else gone through this kind of situation? What did you do?? Part of me says I need to drop my bf if he's not willing to accept this part of my life. But is that selfish of me??
Well, my exH invited me and my bf (dating 4 months now) to his house for dinner. I talked to my bf about it. He is not at all acceptable of this. He said to me "I don't mind going to events for your kid and us all being together, but I'm not getting all buddy buddy with your exH". I explained how my life was growing up and let him know that it sucked.
Has anyone else gone through this kind of situation? What did you do?? Part of me says I need to drop my bf if he's not willing to accept this part of my life. But is that selfish of me??