I have been married for seven years, in those seven years there has been incidents of abuse. This year along there has been two physical incidents and numerous verbal situations. All this has led to my lack of physical attraction(naturally) to him, my love, my desire, all of it is gone. I have nothing but disgust for him and can't stand to be around him any longer than necessary.
I am currently finishing up school and want to decide to move on. I cheated on him over a year ago and it kept on on and off and the last time I cheated was July. He found out about it and he has been upset about it(though he has cheated on me
) it is just a disaster and I am so sick of him.
There are children involved(2 sons) and this is where I guess I second guess myself. I do not want anything further to do with him, but am I truly justified in my decision to be completely done and not give him another chance to change? I feel like he has had more than enough chances and if I were already done with college he would be my ex-husband by now. Anyone had similar experiences?
Thanks.
I am currently finishing up school and want to decide to move on. I cheated on him over a year ago and it kept on on and off and the last time I cheated was July. He found out about it and he has been upset about it(though he has cheated on me
There are children involved(2 sons) and this is where I guess I second guess myself. I do not want anything further to do with him, but am I truly justified in my decision to be completely done and not give him another chance to change? I feel like he has had more than enough chances and if I were already done with college he would be my ex-husband by now. Anyone had similar experiences?
Thanks.