This is by way of a couple of statements. NOBODY has ever been forced to cheat. Not by marital problems, not by lack of sex, not by lonliness, not by the BS, not by the AP, not by ANY outside influence, OF ANY KIND. Cheating is a choice made by and for the WS. The reasons for it are ONLY in the minds OF the WS's. You , simply put, CANNOT force, persuade, coerce cajol, beg, shmooze, order or plead for a person to cheat, IF THEY DON'T WANT TO. The only truly remorseful WS's are the ones who take ALL of of the Blame for the cheating, on their own heads , without any excuses of any kind.
That is my take on it.
That is my take on it.