Well my husband did come home and speak to me about the letter that I put in his lunch pal. He said I totally mistook what he was saying. He says I just don't understand that I am his top priority when he is here at home. He says he can't do anything while he's not with me to show me that I am his top priority. I don't know it just sounds wrong to me. I know when he is at work he needs to focus on his jobs. He will call usually, once in a blue moon he will text. But no matter were I am working, home, visiting somewhere, whatever the case he is always my top priority is that wrong of me? And again by what he is saying to me I just get the same sense that I am only important when he is here, otherwise when I'm out of his sight I'm out of his mind and that is how he makes me feel and I have told him that a few times before but than he tells me something like this (that I am top priority when he is here at home, am I just taking his statement wrong? A difference between our languages? Please any thoughts. Thanks!!!