[Tom16]

I posted previously "16 years of marriage gone?". That explains all I've been going thru. I got my wife to agree to see a therapist. I went first poured out my heart and soul. Left out nothing including the ugly parts. I really was honest because I feel that if I'm not I'm wasting time. Wife went two days ago. Said she liked the therapist. I didn't ask what all they talked about, I know most of it. Tomorrow we are to meet up with him together. I'm really nervous and scared. Is it going to be a "let me down easy session"? or a "let's get to work and fix the marriage session"? I know it's a 50/50 shot. I'm hoping for the fix it. In the other case I'll be devastated and don't know how I'll handle it. I do wish her happiness. And I know I can survive without her, but it will sure and truly suck. Any advice or comments welcome. :scratchhead: