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I know that what I'm doing to be here is going against most all advice I've read. And I know this isn't really about an existing marriage. But here goes...
I've met a great lady (or seems to be) on a dating site and we've hit it off very, very well. I'm 55, just divorced for the second time from a long distance marriage that was "over" about a year ago. She's a couple years younger, been divorced twice as well, the second coming about 2 years or so ago.
We've been talking daily for about 3 weeks now and she has booked a flight to my location for the weekend, to stay at my home. She's not asked about seperate bed arrangements so I have no choice but assume we'd be sleeping together. Our conversations haven't gone deep into sexual subjects but from them I believe our sex drives are similar. She says "no pressure, lets just have fun".
From our conversations, I feel we have a great deal in common, have many similar interests, actually come from within 30 miles or so at birth, and seem to want the same things in the future. Everything seems to click up to this point so well that it's almost "scary". The telephone conversation chemistry I'm feeling is extremely good. I'm looking forward to meeting her as she, at this point, seems like the "soul mate" I've been looking for.
We've agreed to take things as they come, not to rush anything. I'm sure you would say that our actions aren't matching that. I'd welcome comments...
I've met a great lady (or seems to be) on a dating site and we've hit it off very, very well. I'm 55, just divorced for the second time from a long distance marriage that was "over" about a year ago. She's a couple years younger, been divorced twice as well, the second coming about 2 years or so ago.
We've been talking daily for about 3 weeks now and she has booked a flight to my location for the weekend, to stay at my home. She's not asked about seperate bed arrangements so I have no choice but assume we'd be sleeping together. Our conversations haven't gone deep into sexual subjects but from them I believe our sex drives are similar. She says "no pressure, lets just have fun".
From our conversations, I feel we have a great deal in common, have many similar interests, actually come from within 30 miles or so at birth, and seem to want the same things in the future. Everything seems to click up to this point so well that it's almost "scary". The telephone conversation chemistry I'm feeling is extremely good. I'm looking forward to meeting her as she, at this point, seems like the "soul mate" I've been looking for.
We've agreed to take things as they come, not to rush anything. I'm sure you would say that our actions aren't matching that. I'd welcome comments...