My boys are grown, 25 and 23, but that doesn't make it any easier, in fact, it might just make it harder. We have never had to live like this in their whole lives. Last year, they ate with my family for Thanksgiving, but this year they are going to the in-laws for dinner, and I will go to my sister's house. I have been working with my self all weekend, getting ready to face this. I feel so bad for them, they each told me they were going to their Nana's house, I already knew that, since we always alternated that holiday, it is her turn to get them. I cried tonight when I talked about it with my oldest, what could I do, it makes me very sad. Its not the way I ever intended to live my life. I know I will see them each later in the day but...This year has to be better than last and next year will be better than this one.