My limited findings were from our shared computer. I have reached the top of any possible findings there, from some texts that she forgot to erase like she usually does at her messenger group with her bffs, and some limited google findings like her search history. The combination of these two, along with other leads have brought me to a point where I can see what is going on but the evidence in my hands can be doubted as there is no clear confession other than implications.Does she have a tablet , or social media off of the phone ? Home computer or iPad. ? Outside email ? .....Your issue is your afraid to get caught snooping ?
Can you take a picture of her finger when she is asleep ( friend did this ) and use a 3D printer ?
I know that the apps she is using to text are Whatsapp and Viber to which there is no other access than her phone. Her phone call app might give me something more solid too.
I believe I could sneak her phone and try to unlock it at first, but I am afraid that an installed app might create a notification, an alert or something as I know it would take a few attempts to unlock it. This would backfire on me, I would begin to confront her based on what I have in my hands and, judging by other people's confessions here and by her own personal attitude too, she would deny it strongly as long it is not a very clear evidence.
The 3D print looks kind of exaggerated, I would prefer using her actual finger when she is asleep to unlock her phone but it would be a very difficult situation to explain, if I get caught in the act.
I will try to take a look if can turn off or uninstall a safety app through the desktop mode of Playstore - thanks for the advice even though I kind of doubt that it could actually happen.
Has anyone used a spypen before? I was thinking of putting the pen where she usually studies at the office when I am gone. Is there any way to get caught? Maybe a small sound or a small light, something that could betray the existence of the pen?
Writing and reading the above makes me want to die. I hate myself for what I am becoming. I just want to go and tell her the things I want even with the leads, not evidence, that I have right now. Then I see my kids waking up in the morning and I just want to cry and hug them and I can't stand the idea of not waking up in the same house with them any more. I am sick and tired and angry and I just want some closure.