While I was pregnant, my husband pulled away emotionally and stopped having sex with me. I think we had sex twice while I was pregnant. I never felt so lonely or disgusting. While we have a beautiful child now which I am so thankful for, I can't seem to stop being hurt and angry by that. Before that, our relationship had a pattern - me, confront him about how I feel like I'm always the one who wants to have sex, and that he's always saying no - him, deny it and then in a desperate attempt to deflect the issue, have sex with me. Sexual sahara after that then the cycle repeated. He has seemed restless since the baby and although I don't have proof, I suspect he's tempted to cheat if he hasn't already. I'm so frustrated. He's my best friend, but I long for someone who wants and needs me again. He claims he's been making an effort, but could not be any less romantic if he tried. I suspect the fact that I can't let go of my resentment is probably causing some of these problems but I don't know how to make it stop. HELP!