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I know this question maybe inappropriate, but since i am not female, i wanted to get a general poll. I have at least an EA W and not sure if it has moved to PA. Also listed Luvena??

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So the KY bottle in my wifes purse and the larger size in her clove box is not for dry skin?

I found a few empty one under her car seat and her office trash can.....after all we live in a dry climate! LOL

Sorry Gary, but start trusting your gut. affairs are like icebergs, there is always more to them then appears......or we want to believe as the betrayed.
 

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i know all, she will tell me that. I put down a VAR last night and heard her talking to OM on her burner phone. I just want more support that she cant say her "female area" was dry. Still has luvena on her phone list, i took a pic of the list with ky.
 

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no, i suspect its not a moisturizer....or EVER used for even FEM parts, but, she will tell me that, though that will reveal my method of getting info..so it will be at the Big D process. i guess.
 

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I know Tunera, but i want to have ALL my bases covered for Dday. That is what i thought, but she will counter with some crap. And i feel much more confident if i have 20 females say - uhh...no KY is not a Female part moisturizer exept for ...
 

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no, i suspect its not a moisturizer....or EVER used for even FEM parts, but, she will tell me that, though that will reveal my method of getting info..so it will be at the Big D process. i guess.
NEVER REVEAL YOUR SOURCE!!!!!!!:mad:

As far as your WW is concerned someone could have saw them and told you, you hired a PI, or you found something by accident.

When you confront you can tell her "it no longer matter how you know but you know the truth" and it she will always have the choice to be honest or not.

Again never reveal your sources, there are way to many possiblities, so just let her assume you hired a PI or someone told you....hell as far as she is concerned the OM could have told you everything or his GF or wife told you.
 

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no, i suspect its not a moisturizer....or EVER used for even FEM parts, but, she will tell me that, though that will reveal my method of getting info..so it will be at the Big D process. i guess.
You should practice bursting out laughing if she tries this one on you (i.e., it's not for sexual purposes). Tell her, "nice try."

Separately, I want to caution you--some cheaters take gaslighting (making you think you're crazy) to a high art. It is absolutely pointless to get them to "admit" because they never, ever will. Some loyal spouses get very frustrated, spinning their wheels and putting months, even years of effort into pinning down a liar. Step back and realize that the very fact that you have to even CONSIDER doing that is reason alone to walk away.

The best examples on the forum include a woman who planted a VAR that picked up her husband having sex with a woman--denial. Another member had videotape evidence he was at a hotel with the OW from the security cameras. He just said she'd doctored it. Another hired a detective that caught the two kissing after he claimed he was completely no contact--still denied. Yet another member has HPV from "a one-time, long ago BJ"--he failed a polygraph which indicates that surprise! there's more to that story--as far as I know he's still in denial.

Collect evidence, confront, but know when to call it a day.
 
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