Female poll: Has any Females used KY as a moisturizer?
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Uh, NO.
So the KY bottle in my wifes purse and the larger size in her clove box is not for dry skin?
I found a few empty one under her car seat and her office trash can.....after all we live in a dry climate! LOL
Sorry Gary, but start trusting your gut. affairs are like icebergs, there is always more to them then appears......or we want to believe as the betrayed.
I found a few empty one under her car seat and her office trash can.....after all we live in a dry climate! LOL
Sorry Gary, but start trusting your gut. affairs are like icebergs, there is always more to them then appears......or we want to believe as the betrayed.
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Ewww.. Uhm no way. I would think it would make your face really greasy and women don't want that at all. Talk about clogging your pores!!
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KY as a moisturizer?wow and to think of all the money i've spent over the years buying oil of olay...
this is the most flimsy lie i've ever heard to cover up an affair.
this is the most flimsy lie i've ever heard to cover up an affair.
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i know all, she will tell me that. I put down a VAR last night and heard her talking to OM on her burner phone. I just want more support that she cant say her "female area" was dry. Still has luvena on her phone list, i took a pic of the list with ky.
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I have never used KY period. Luckily, I have never had the need to. 
Your wife saying she's using it as a moisturizer--sounds like a silly excuse...................... especially if she has never used it before with you!
Your wife saying she's using it as a moisturizer--sounds like a silly excuse...................... especially if she has never used it before with you!
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If not used for FEM parts what do you think she's using it for? I'm not getting it?
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I know Tunera, but i want to have ALL my bases covered for Dday. That is what i thought, but she will counter with some crap. And i feel much more confident if i have 20 females say - uhh...no KY is not a Female part moisturizer exept for ...
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It's called a SEXUAL lubricant for a reason--because that is what it is.
The fact you have her talking to another man on a burner phone and you are finding KY = she is probably cheating.
Get hard evidence.
The fact you have her talking to another man on a burner phone and you are finding KY = she is probably cheating.
Get hard evidence.
NEVER REVEAL YOUR SOURCE!!!!!!!
As far as your WW is concerned someone could have saw them and told you, you hired a PI, or you found something by accident.
When you confront you can tell her "it no longer matter how you know but you know the truth" and it she will always have the choice to be honest or not.
Again never reveal your sources, there are way to many possiblities, so just let her assume you hired a PI or someone told you....hell as far as she is concerned the OM could have told you everything or his GF or wife told you.
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Garry - ky is used as a va jay jay moisturizer or lubricant for sex if that is what your asking
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You should practice bursting out laughing if she tries this one on you (i.e., it's not for sexual purposes). Tell her, "nice try."
Separately, I want to caution you--some cheaters take gaslighting (making you think you're crazy) to a high art. It is absolutely pointless to get them to "admit" because they never, ever will. Some loyal spouses get very frustrated, spinning their wheels and putting months, even years of effort into pinning down a liar. Step back and realize that the very fact that you have to even CONSIDER doing that is reason alone to walk away.
The best examples on the forum include a woman who planted a VAR that picked up her husband having sex with a woman--denial. Another member had videotape evidence he was at a hotel with the OW from the security cameras. He just said she'd doctored it. Another hired a detective that caught the two kissing after he claimed he was completely no contact--still denied. Yet another member has HPV from "a one-time, long ago BJ"--he failed a polygraph which indicates that surprise! there's more to that story--as far as I know he's still in denial.
Collect evidence, confront, but know when to call it a day.
The money you will spend will be well worth it.
Folks here have always said it was the best money they ever spent.
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