I don't think they do.On a side note....I wonder if the women in the study realized how unlikely their husbands were to stay when they found out.
I thought the part where she noted that more women are cheating than ever, and that women are the new men.
So by that statement we are to assume that men that take an interest in their family and don't cheat....beta. I don't think so. I know many alpha men out there that get cheated on. And I don't think a man that takes pride and interest in his family is any less sexy. My man is family oriented yet is a total ALPHA in the bedroom where it counts.I believe that this article confirms what many here say, man have become less men , beta . Beta is safe but beta is boring
It's all part and parcel of female affair think. Too much contempt for the BH, brain sex drugs, magic thinking. All rolled into one big ball. When I first started thinking about relationships (I'm sure it was due to falling T levels) and all the girls i've known before (sounds like a million seller) there was a woman running a blog about her *AM* exploits who was busted by her H. She'd harvested about 20 guys, blogged about it, and was blindsided by the instant divorce that followed.I don't think they do.
The Husband of the OW, in my STBEH's affair, filed for divorce. The OW, according to what I hear is in shock.
Her husband treated her like a princess and fawned over her and she thought he would forgive her.
Yep. And probably sooner than anyone on here can imagine.However this doesn't bother me in the least. We can call blue red all we want, but when this civilization falls, and people start beating and eating each other, you'll be surprised how quickly people fit back into their proper gender roles.
Whatever we choose to say about them, some of their moral convictions are extremely admirable.We can all move to Saudi Arabia and this topic would be a moot point
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I agree.So by that statement we are to assume that men that take an interest in their family and don't cheat....beta. I don't think so. I know many alpha men out there that get cheated on. And I don't think a man that takes pride and interest in his family is any less sexy. My man is family oriented yet is a total ALPHA in the bedroom where it counts.
Thank you for sharing that.She'd harvested about 20 guys, blogged about it, and was blindsided by the instant divorce that followed.
Actually, if you do solid research of your own on this issue, it is validated by recent numerous reputable studies that cheating is on the rise some tenfold.A persuasively written article does not mean it is true in all aspects.
What it does mean is that the writer has chops--period.
Women and men are cheating --or not-- at about the same levels as always.
It's no accident that it was addressed in the 10 commandments thousands of years ago.
Hubris to think that somehow women and men have changed in our strengths and weaknesses.
This lady is deep in the fog... I wonder if her husband read this, he might want to install a VAR in her car.Women are becoming more confident about making choices. Sexual exploration -- and, yes, at times infidelity -- is just one example.
Is this a good thing? It sure is. For these women, marriage is important, but it doesn't define them. If it doesn't last, they won't be destroyed. For a woman, the ability to realize that she's not happy -- and she's going to do something about it, rather than be passive and accept whatever comes -- is empowering. She is claiming her right to feel fulfilled in relationships and sex, regardless of what society may expect of her.
I believe that everyone has the right to be happy but not at the expense of others, that is the problem with people today they just don't care, if you have a dollar and I want it then I may shoot you for it but it is ok because I really wanted it to make me happy.I think it a sad state of our society that it has been acceptable for women to cheat. She clearly states that her mother's generation would have basicly given a WW the scarlet letter. The truth of the matter is that we have 3 generations raised that they have the right to be happy. The problem is that many people think it is everyone else's job to mak them happy. Guess what, it is time for people to step up and take the reins into their own hands. You want more sex, then take the time. Want better sex, then speak up and spice it up. DO NOT look outside your marraige. Adultery is NOT something we should be proud of.
On a side note....I wonder if the women in the study realized how unlikely their husbands were to stay when they found out.