Yes amen. This is the exact point that I don't get from people esp some men.This is concerning.
Why, you ask?
Because if I told my wife that something of this nature was going to stop immediately, it would happen, or she wouldn't be my wife.
I wouldn't need a counselor to help 'convince' her that she is in the wrong.
That you do tells me you have larger problems than a wayward wife.
There is no need here to have anyone say anything to his wife except him.
"Wife, you will not speak to Jim in anyway or you will leave and I will present you with divorce papers."
How hard is that?