[thelostman]

How do you get put of this dark dark hole???? I'm a grown man yet I've cried like I never thought I could. My wife said last month we could work it out, but now she doesn't want to. She wants a SEPERATION! Last week I busted her texing a guy she met a work last month. She swears they never met. Only talking by tex about random stuff. I hate this bull called love. All I want is to get drunk, but then I beg her to love ne like an idiot!!!! What is the 180 thing all about?
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[Conrad]

How do you get put of this dark dark hole???? I'm a grown man yet I've cried like I never thought I could. My wife said last month we could work it out, but now she doesn't want to. She wants a SEPERATION! Last week I busted her texing a guy she met a work last month. She swears they never met. Only talking by tex about random stuff. I hate this bull called love. All I want is to get drunk, but then I beg her to love ne like an idiot!!!! What is the 180 thing all about?
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First, you need to understand how far she's gone.

Check cell records, text records, email, etc.

Place a voice-activated recorder under the seat of her car and 2 more in areas where she would otherwise expect privacy.

Come back and tell us what you find.

 

[Eternal Embrace]

Here's some info on the 180:
Boundaries - Save Your Marriage or Relationship

Just a warning - it can be very hard at first but it is a good tool for helping yourself get thru this situtation.

Good luck and keep up posted.