Hi, new here so please excuse if I get anything wrong. Thing is, I'm feeling very confused atm. It's not the first thing that has really hurt my feelings, there's been a few things my OH has done/not done/ said, that I think are horrid and this time I'm starting to have doubts about our relationship. So, this last one was about him forgetting our anniversary. Not the crime of the century but to put it into context, it's not the first time and after the first time I really stressed how important it was to me to at least get a card. The date is easy to remember I think, not just some random date but it's the day after his mothers birthday, so not difficult. Anyway, he forgot, he apologised, I stated quite clearly that I wasn't impressed as this was the 3rd time it's happened so it's best not to bother again as I'm not going to let myself be upset every year. But to make things worse, two days later, he noticed the date on tv and said 'It's my brothers birthday tomorrow' , he doesn't speak to his brother and hasn't seen him for about 15 years. Then a couple of days later, he was talking about his ex and I asked how long it had been since they seperated and he told me the day, month and year that they split. So obviously he has no trouble remembering dates, but not ours. I'm not seeing my friends at the moment because of this virus thing and I'm feeling lost on how I'm thinking about this. Am I being over-sensitive? Or am I right to think it's rather strange and very hurtful?