I’m with her because I don’t want to cause her any stress whilst she’s pregnant. We’ve totally drifted apart anyway since she’s been pregnant she comes over only once or twice a week now,her choice not to come although it doesn’t really affect me her not coming. As for my ex I regret jumping straight into this relationship instead of trying to solve the problems we had even though we split up we were occasionally talking via text but always ended up in a argument then I met the woman I’m with now on a night out through Mutual friends and I just got carried away with myself with something new and it soon wore off then the pregnancy happenedHere is what I am trying to understand: why, exactly, are you still with the pregnant girlfriend? Is it out of pitty? Sense of duty? Lack of options? What? You have stated that you do not love her and you regret the breakup with your ex (even though you were the one that was dumped). I'm asking you this because, I'm trying to understand your motive. Are you just trying not to hurt the girlfriend? Stringing her along when you know you will not be there long term, is cruel. Right now, in her head, she is thinking that you, her and baby are going to be a family from here on out. And I would hate to be here on TAM, a year or two down the road, reading her story of how the father of her children bailed on her for another woman. If you have already made up your mind that you do not want to be with this girl for the long haul, end it ASAP.