Here's the history. My husband and I recently got married 6 months ago after dating for 13 years. (now in my 30s). we have no children.
For 13 years I lived with my parents, and once married we moved into his parents house whilst saving to buy a house.
Before we got married, I felt things were fantastic, I felt he used to give me all he attention I wanted alough we only used to see each other once a week but there was a spark and passion. I couldnt wait to get married ( delays were nhim studying) most per marrage arguments were abut wanting to spend more time with him.
Now married, for the first month, things were great bt now I feel almost like an extension to his mother.cleaning cooking etc.
He rarely wants to spend time with me and if he does it's never alone. Hasnt told me he loves me in about a year. And isn't intimate unless in bed prob once every other week, initiated by a quick whip off cloths and once done, roll over and sleep.- a massive turn off.
He does no cookin or cleaning as his mum I I do it. ( if Irefuse to cook/clean) his mum will step in or he will ask her, making me feel bad. If I ask him, blatantly disespects me and says I should do it, it's my job ( dispute working just as hard during the week)
He doesn't spntainiusly want to do anything with me, buys food and drink only for him self. I feel like if I wasn't there it wldnt really matter.
I've tried to talk to him but he only gets angry and says I'm over reacting. I feel depressed most evenings and lonley, and can't really talk to anyone.
If I wold have known he would have behaved this way I wold have never wanted to marry him.
Help
For 13 years I lived with my parents, and once married we moved into his parents house whilst saving to buy a house.
Before we got married, I felt things were fantastic, I felt he used to give me all he attention I wanted alough we only used to see each other once a week but there was a spark and passion. I couldnt wait to get married ( delays were nhim studying) most per marrage arguments were abut wanting to spend more time with him.
Now married, for the first month, things were great bt now I feel almost like an extension to his mother.cleaning cooking etc.
He rarely wants to spend time with me and if he does it's never alone. Hasnt told me he loves me in about a year. And isn't intimate unless in bed prob once every other week, initiated by a quick whip off cloths and once done, roll over and sleep.- a massive turn off.
He does no cookin or cleaning as his mum I I do it. ( if Irefuse to cook/clean) his mum will step in or he will ask her, making me feel bad. If I ask him, blatantly disespects me and says I should do it, it's my job ( dispute working just as hard during the week)
He doesn't spntainiusly want to do anything with me, buys food and drink only for him self. I feel like if I wasn't there it wldnt really matter.
I've tried to talk to him but he only gets angry and says I'm over reacting. I feel depressed most evenings and lonley, and can't really talk to anyone.
If I wold have known he would have behaved this way I wold have never wanted to marry him.
Help