[TJW]

I refer back to my question, why did you want children in the first place?

I want to begin by saying no, I don't think you're "out of line" by expecting him to tow his weight around the house, including the children.

I have to admit, that as a young dad, I was highly resentful of having "my life on hold"..... because I didn't want children, at least not for a while....