How did the rest of your week go, MrPack?
MrPack - my very first post on your thread...The idea that you won't be able to find a new relationship is nutty. You are 32, unattached and with a good job. The wives of your married friends will fall all over themselves trying to play cupid and set you up. They live for such things. Quite frankly, women will find you. All you have to do is get yourself out into social situations even if you don't feel like it.
It is progress to feel okay with being alone. You'll even start to enjoy it and look forward to it! I love coming home to my cozy little place at the end of the day. Once you find a new place that's yours, it will be even better.Stayed home from work today with what seems to be the flu. Luckily I am able to log in from home an do some work but just being home all day in the middle of the week sucks. Work has been a great escape from all the crap so today hasnt been the best but also I feel like I'm growing. Having a day all alone in my house during the week while being sick a few months ago would have been terrible. I've enjoyed my time alone in my house while the sale goes through but I am ready and looking forward to moving out of this house and taking the next step forward.
I need some advice though. I am getting very close to starting the divorce process and I want to let her know. Part of me thinks we need to talk face to face to ensure that we are still on teh same page with her debt is her debt and mine is mine. That is basically the only major thing lingering over this upcomming divorce since we have no children and we've already split up all of our stuff. Should I text her or email her telling her that we need to talk? Although I have a lot of anger towards her I'm still in the mindset that I want to keep this as civil as possible and avoid any drama/fighting therefore I dont want to just spring divorce paperwork on her without her knowing. Also I feel like she needs to pay for half of the fees, someone from work told me that if we can do it all on our own it will still cost around $1k. She needs to pay for half of that. Us talking face to face certainly wont be fun or easy but I beleive its the right thing to do.
What do you all think?