my husband and i don't have sex often. I think this is mainly because he refuses to have almost anything to do with me afterwards, not even hold hands.
there have been times, i can't even start because i feel as though i know he will let me down. i start to cry before, during and sometimes afterwards because i know he will not respond to me later.
We just had sex, two nights ago and i was okay. we slept in the same bed, the next morning had hug off to work. when he got home, we went were talking and i decided to take it upon myself and maybe get it started again. i was kissing and hugging him, and he kept laughing stop, the kids will walk in. I thought was weird because he has never used that before. So i thought maybe later, when the kids were asleep. later came and i asked him to go to bed with me and he said no. Going on day two, and he has yet to touch me or even say he loves me since then.
This is what i was afraid of, having this feelings of rejection. What am i to do? He doesn't want to talk about it or anything else. just ignore the situation.
there have been times, i can't even start because i feel as though i know he will let me down. i start to cry before, during and sometimes afterwards because i know he will not respond to me later.
We just had sex, two nights ago and i was okay. we slept in the same bed, the next morning had hug off to work. when he got home, we went were talking and i decided to take it upon myself and maybe get it started again. i was kissing and hugging him, and he kept laughing stop, the kids will walk in. I thought was weird because he has never used that before. So i thought maybe later, when the kids were asleep. later came and i asked him to go to bed with me and he said no. Going on day two, and he has yet to touch me or even say he loves me since then.
This is what i was afraid of, having this feelings of rejection. What am i to do? He doesn't want to talk about it or anything else. just ignore the situation.