So, me and my wife have been having some ups and downs lately. She's let me know that she doesn't feel the same way she did about me. here recently (maybe 30min ago) i found out she's been messaging someone through Facebook. Now its mostly been how are you... maybe a joke here or there and honestly a ton of memes back and forth. But she's also sent him pictures of her when she dyed her hair and such. Being has at the beginning of the month she said she wanted to leave if things didn't change, i'm worried. She said she doesn't really feel the need to leave at the moment but i don't want some guy we know from an internet game to make her more happy than i do, as i'm trying so hard to make her happy. We've been together for 10 years now, married for 3yrs, have 2 kids. Am i over reacting or is this a legitimate fear to have? dont be bias being as this is a thread for me just be honest i dont want to be upset and cause a rift do to false ideas of betrayal. Oh and i realize my grammar and what not is horrible.