Right now I don't know if it's possible, so tell me, has anyone fallen out of love, yet fallen back in love? How did it happen? How can one fall back in love with someone after much resentment?
... so, it just happens? =/One day about a year or so later, she was on FB and saw him with the kids and she instantly felt the complete opposite.
Nobody is perfect though Random. Maybe you put her on a pedestal and it was in achievable for her. Maybe she felt too much pressure to live up to your expectations? I don't know!Well I dunno, she was perfect for 2 years 5-7 years ago... well, almost perfect. I used to believe what you just mentioned but when I realised I've been doing nothing but trying to convince myself that I love her when I didn't... I don't know =/
You're right, it isn't. Guess a part of me doesn't really want anything to do with her anymore, I was going to pull the plug already but she broke down, said she wants to do anything to save our marriage, decided to do IC, says she can't move on unless she truly feels there's no hope for us. So ok...Exactly a year ago, I was sitting here in my house all alone. She was done and saw no way to continue. This morning we made love.
If one really wants it, the odds are much better. I really wanted to save the marriage and she was going through a faze...MLC. So I became a better me. It all comes down to attraction in the end.
Your additude in the last post does not sound like you are the example she needs to see to reconcile. Not very attractive to her or any others who would be looking for a lasting relationship.
"I'm giving us this small little chance..."
"then I'm moving on and pulling the plug on us"
Not exactly meat for a Falling back in love story.
=/Hmm! Tough one! I suppose it doesn't really, because you love the thought of her, and the way she used to be, if she is no longer that person and you don't like the changes then I guess it doesn't count!
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