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Recently my husband had been acting different. I had noticed he had been wanting to go out to hookah bars a lot lately and I was left home with our 2 year old and I am 8 months pregnant.
At night I would notice his phone would light up and girls would be sending him facebook messages. I ignored them thinking well maybe im a paranoid girl. He can have girl friends. Well it got to me one day.
I woke up in the middle of the night grabbed his phone and found messages from a girl talking about lets hang out, and apparently one night when he was drunk she picked him up from the bar and he lied to me about who dropped him off to our house. Then she kept talking about being on him and stuff when and if they were to go to haunted houses. They just kept flirting and no where did he indicate the line of being married.
I confronted him and he apologized and we went on... well I went through his phone because something else didn't feel right.
I found he had been talking to ANOTHER girl. This time they talked about her being sexy and her getting a sexy tattoo in a sexy spot and then he said he still found her sexy. They also talked about how their past sex was great and she missed him. (also this girl has gotten in trouble for sleeping with a married military man.) she brought up won't your wife get mad and he said she wont know *winky face* and then he proceeded to send out his new phone number and also pointed out things aren't going how i want them in my marraige and they could possibly hook up.
He said the girl was sad and he was cheering her up and I took it the wrong way. and apologized for saying what he did and it wasn't right.
I can't get over this. My heart hurts and I am not allowed to talk to ANYONE about this. :'(
*also before all this he had been on a dating website as well.* I just am worried idk if he's still texting these girls or how many times he's done this to me before I found out. He deleted many of his messages off of his fb when I went through his phone after finding the last girl.
I just don't know what to do because its so hard for me to work this out of my mind.. I am now too worried and he's constantly making me feel like I need to trust him again. Because he trusted me again after finding porn on my phone. *which I had because he wasn't sexually paying attention to me and I just felt un-sexy.. I know its still wrong. I haven't watched any since the day he discovered that.*
Please anyone help me. I really am upset and hurt badly.. I love my husband but I am feeling I can't get over this.
At night I would notice his phone would light up and girls would be sending him facebook messages. I ignored them thinking well maybe im a paranoid girl. He can have girl friends. Well it got to me one day.
I woke up in the middle of the night grabbed his phone and found messages from a girl talking about lets hang out, and apparently one night when he was drunk she picked him up from the bar and he lied to me about who dropped him off to our house. Then she kept talking about being on him and stuff when and if they were to go to haunted houses. They just kept flirting and no where did he indicate the line of being married.
I confronted him and he apologized and we went on... well I went through his phone because something else didn't feel right.
I found he had been talking to ANOTHER girl. This time they talked about her being sexy and her getting a sexy tattoo in a sexy spot and then he said he still found her sexy. They also talked about how their past sex was great and she missed him. (also this girl has gotten in trouble for sleeping with a married military man.) she brought up won't your wife get mad and he said she wont know *winky face* and then he proceeded to send out his new phone number and also pointed out things aren't going how i want them in my marraige and they could possibly hook up.
He said the girl was sad and he was cheering her up and I took it the wrong way. and apologized for saying what he did and it wasn't right.
I can't get over this. My heart hurts and I am not allowed to talk to ANYONE about this. :'(
*also before all this he had been on a dating website as well.* I just am worried idk if he's still texting these girls or how many times he's done this to me before I found out. He deleted many of his messages off of his fb when I went through his phone after finding the last girl.
I just don't know what to do because its so hard for me to work this out of my mind.. I am now too worried and he's constantly making me feel like I need to trust him again. Because he trusted me again after finding porn on my phone. *which I had because he wasn't sexually paying attention to me and I just felt un-sexy.. I know its still wrong. I haven't watched any since the day he discovered that.*
Please anyone help me. I really am upset and hurt badly.. I love my husband but I am feeling I can't get over this.