Hello everyone! This is my first post here. I've gone through a few posts and LOVE the support here. My wife (30) and I (40) have been married for four years and known each other for 8. We were best friends first so that's a good thing I guess. She mostly dated girls before we met and says she finds most men "gross". Tonight I'm having to go hang out with one of her ex's (a girl) and a guy they both slept with a few times. And yes, the three of them together. I'm VERY uncomfortable with this. I've told her this and her response was "oh, it was like 11 years ago, relax". I've hung out with the ex girlfriend and my wife a few times and that was bad enough. My wife has slept with just about all of her friends and as time goes by she slips up when drinking and I find out about ANOTHER of her friends she says she never slept with that she in fact DID sleep with. I have NO problem with her hanging out with friends but what do you do when your wife mostly likes girls and most of them are ex's? I mean, even when she meets some girl and casually says how cute that girl is I get nervous, and for good reason I would think. She used to hang out with her best friend and her husband and drink a lot and watch porn and sleep in their bed and I'm supposed to believe they never did anything? Really?! I don't know what to do. The fact she slept with girls mostly makes it VERY difficult. I can't tell her she can have no friends. I have NO ONE to talk to about any of this. Help?