My wife lived maybe a crisis, at 30, not sure, and then found the Shades of Grey books and just went crazy. She opened up sexually, we grew really close together, she told me of all her thoughts and perceptions on sexuality, and things have been great. I am HD and she used to be LD, but this has now changed, she is now HD, as she has confided in me what she wants to do. We have bought toys, gone on 3 month binges, pretty much done it all under the sun. She is now 33 and I am 38, we have 3 kids, less than 7 years old. We have been to strip clubs together and also visited just to look at some BDSM sex clubs, crazy what goes on in there. I don’t care for the BDSM stuff, but she loves it. So I do it for her, I am more vanilla, but I can be aggressive, which she likes. She sleeps naked and basically I can get it anytime, anyplace at any frequency and so can she, we are each other HO’s. She is a great mom and the best wife in the world; we love and respect each other greatly.
So this brings me to this issue, she drank a bit the other day after the kids went to sleep and was very kinky. After the kink, she asked me about my fantasy and you all can guess I am a guy; it’s a threesome with her and another woman. She knows this and won’t do it, because she won’t share me, but asked about my second. That’s easy, not sure if it’s the same for others, but I would love to see my wife making out with another woman and sucking each other breasts. They then both provide oral to me, one on my p!nis and the other on my b0lls, that’s heaven for men, at least for me. I then finish myself off on both of them while they kiss. This is the hottest imagery that comes to mind after a threesome, more than any porn or anything else. And it’s not me and 2 other women, that doesn’t do it for me, my wife has to be in it. What blows me away is that she confided that she has been curios about being with another woman, she won’t elaborate, just says she has felt curious in the past. So she said yes, that she’s willing to do this for me, of her own free will, as long as I don’t touch the OW. I asked her the following day and we have discussed it at length and we are both crystal clear on the details and boundaries. We actually tried it while in the Caribbean a few months ago, but couldn’t execute. So I brought up the idea of hiring an escort and she was ok with that, that’s more direct than trying it at a club and more controlled.
Anyway here are my issues, I dated her for 1 year and have been married for 13 years. We are both educated and intelligent; and I have thought thorough the pros and cons. Our relationship id very solid. First I would like to hear from anyone that has done something like this? How did it go, how did you feel afterwards, both partners? Anyone else close to this, realizing a fantasy or has experience with bringing in a 3rd person the marriage for 1 experience? Please provide details and the experiences, not just open-ended opinions. I have been reading this list for years, so I am clear on all the failed threesome experiences and bringing a 3rd party to the marriage. This is much more controlled and limited. Pardon the length.
So this brings me to this issue, she drank a bit the other day after the kids went to sleep and was very kinky. After the kink, she asked me about my fantasy and you all can guess I am a guy; it’s a threesome with her and another woman. She knows this and won’t do it, because she won’t share me, but asked about my second. That’s easy, not sure if it’s the same for others, but I would love to see my wife making out with another woman and sucking each other breasts. They then both provide oral to me, one on my p!nis and the other on my b0lls, that’s heaven for men, at least for me. I then finish myself off on both of them while they kiss. This is the hottest imagery that comes to mind after a threesome, more than any porn or anything else. And it’s not me and 2 other women, that doesn’t do it for me, my wife has to be in it. What blows me away is that she confided that she has been curios about being with another woman, she won’t elaborate, just says she has felt curious in the past. So she said yes, that she’s willing to do this for me, of her own free will, as long as I don’t touch the OW. I asked her the following day and we have discussed it at length and we are both crystal clear on the details and boundaries. We actually tried it while in the Caribbean a few months ago, but couldn’t execute. So I brought up the idea of hiring an escort and she was ok with that, that’s more direct than trying it at a club and more controlled.
Anyway here are my issues, I dated her for 1 year and have been married for 13 years. We are both educated and intelligent; and I have thought thorough the pros and cons. Our relationship id very solid. First I would like to hear from anyone that has done something like this? How did it go, how did you feel afterwards, both partners? Anyone else close to this, realizing a fantasy or has experience with bringing in a 3rd person the marriage for 1 experience? Please provide details and the experiences, not just open-ended opinions. I have been reading this list for years, so I am clear on all the failed threesome experiences and bringing a 3rd party to the marriage. This is much more controlled and limited. Pardon the length.
,,, fantasy (sick one) should stay a fantasy. 
