I never said I hated Jewish people. And if he was so proud then why stay with us. He willingly dated me knowing we were against israel and glossed over hatred towards Jews.About her doing courses on Judaism - to a lot of people, having an understanding of their spouse's religion is very important because it informs much of their outlook on life, marriage and family. Her studying Judaism is a good thing.
I am baffled that you do not understand why he would not want to be with someone who hates Jewish people. He's Jewish.
Would you date someone how hates your race and/or religion?
So it's his problem.