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I heard a guy on playboy radio say that men have all sorts of sick fantasies That they would never tell their wife. So first question, is this true for you?

Well, i told my husband what i heard on the radio and told him to please tell me a secret fantasy he had and it didnt matter how f'ed up it was and i promised not to shame him or get angry.

So he told me about this fantasy he had of me giving a bj to one of his best friends and him...and us basically having a swinger experience (he didnt use the word swinger). I was really shocked. But i was accepting of this and he made it clear it wasnt something he actually wanted to do but rather is a fantasy that pops up in his mind.

Any men out there had a similar fantasy? Wtf? I dont get it. When i think of another woman touching my DH i want to scream.
 
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I can honestly say mine is not the sharing type. He can't stand the thought of anyone else touching me and would more then likely break their arm if they did.
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I can honestly say mine is not the sharing type. He can't stand the thought of anyone else touching me and would more then likely break their arm if they did.
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:iagree::iagree:
Mine is the same way.
 

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Mine isnt the sharing type either! Thats what i dont get
 

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I have had that type of fantasy. Usually when I am going solo. I wouldn't even want to kiss my wife again if she was with another man for real. It's just a fantasy.
 

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Where do men get these type of fantasies from?
I have never had such fantasies.
I don't need any other man to " help me " [email protected] my wife.
 
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I can honestly say mine is not the sharing type. He can't stand the thought of anyone else touching me and would more then likely break their arm if they did.
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I am not the sharing type at all either....that fantasy is too far out there for this husband...but to each is own...
 
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I have had that type of fantasy. Usually when I am going solo. I wouldn't even want to kiss my wife again if she was with another man for real. It's just a fantasy.
So WHAT is it about?
 

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I just wonder if men constantly have sick $h*# in their heads. But it not really soething theyd actually want to do
 

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My DH works offshore so he has to go solo a lot...maybe he got bored with the same ol' thoughts lol
 

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no. im too possessive for that. sounds more like a nightmare than a fantasy.

This has come up before between us in chit chat though, discussing why other people do it.
we couldnt quite figure it out.
As my wife said to me "Why would you want to own me just to give me to someone else?"
"i wouldnt, thats just thing, why share my most valuable possession i dont let people even drive my car." i said something to the effect of.
we really just couldnt figure it out.
It had us perplexed, how people could even do that.

And the thing is, that is exactly what it comes down to.
you own something, possess it, consider it valuable, why would you want to give it to someone else?
 

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But he said he would never actually want to do it. He didnt even call it a fantasy. Just said its popped up in his mind.
 

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I heard a guy on playboy radio say that men have all sorts of sick fantasies That they would never tell their wife. So first question, is this true for you?
Absolutely untrue. I've shared ALL my sick fantasies with my wife. :smthumbup:

Actually this is one of my fantasies too. I would never allow it to become reality but she and I both enjoy this one. My wife has rape fantasies too that she'd never want to become reality. That's the whole point of a fantasy. You can do anything you want in a fantasy. We are affair partners in our fantasies. We are boyfriend/girlfriend in our fantasies. We are debauched swingers in our fantasies. But all physicality is kept solely between she and I.
 

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Wow sandc,

I once KNEW this. Thanks for reminding me.
 

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Wait!! You KNEW *MY* fantasies? That's just spooky. :lol:
Haha no...".But all physicality is kept solely between she and I."

And what a fantasy means in our relationship.
 

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My man & I enjoy watching porn together and the porn w/1 woman with multiple men is what we watch the most! I like the multiple penises (my favorite man part. Hehe) and he gets turned on by seeing the woman taking care of & being pleasured by so many men.

He's made it clear that he fantasizes about seeing me in those scenarios and said that the appeal is in seeing me from a watchers point of view; all the angles that he can't see from his up close vantage point when we have sex. But he realizes the ramifications of the reality & says he couldn't actually share me like that. It's just a fantasy that I now understand.
 

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Nope, not even once. Don't let others drive my SUV either.

Frankly, I've never known a guy with such a fantasy either. My buddies are more likely to kill any other guy that touches their wife.

I think there is a small, sick, group of emotionl disturbed people who keep posting this same thing over and over on the Internet.

I'll believe it's a real think when we start seeing men post on here about how happy they Jane that their wife is cheating on them. So far havent seen even one such post.
 
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