[greatgal]

I’m so glad you are free from that terrible person. Stay strong, keep close to your support, keep talking here. Today is Tuesday, the day you meet with the lawyer to file, right?

Yes

 

[greatgal]

Filed for divorce today

 

[BeyondRepair007]

Filed for divorce today

When does he get served?

This will get very real for him when that happens. He will probably freak out and try to convince you to stop.

Are you ready for that?

 

[greatgal]

When does he get served?

This will get very real for him when that happens. He will probably freak out and try to convince you to stop.

Are you ready for that?

Hopefully today,I am standing my ground and telling him no

 

[ShatteredKat]

greatgal

someone once gave me a bit of advice

"You never intended to get involved in a bar fight but crap happens and you find yourself the object of someones ire.
You didn't insult anyone or their girlfriend or their ancestry etc. but you have become the object of their anger. (and some others)
You are trying to avoid blows and suddenly you find yourself looking at 3 fists coming for your face. Best you can do
is block two. Your choice is which one will you take?"

It is going to hurt - resign yourself to having to deal with - and you be stronger for it.

 

[Marc878]

My estranged husband I left yesterday finally told me and it hit me hard.We met up in a neutral place and told me he cheated on me 5 times during our marriage.I was angry and it hit me hard.Pleaded to me to come back and we can work things out.I told him hell no and not coming back,had enough of his crap.Worst part is he has a kid each with two of the women.Got back in my truck and left.This is the worst I have been through with him.I know better,he would of cheated on me if I came back.

Serial cheaters never stop. Stay strong and cut ALL contact.