Trying to reach out to anyone with a similar problem. My husband and I have been married 20 years. Several weeks ago I found he was emailing an old girlfriend. The emails were mostly about what has happened to each of them in the last 20+ years, but many also contained words about how each of them looked forward to the next day's email. They were emailing daily, and my husband seemed to be blindsided by the emotion he felt for her after all these years, and told her this. She agreed that she felt the same way. He was gone with one of our kids when I found the emails, and when he came home he could tell I was very upset about something and point blank asked me if I found them. I said yes and burst into tears. He said that it has been eating at him and he knew it was inappropriate and ashamed of himself. I truly believe there was nothing physical, but for some reason the emotional part of it is so hard for me. I am very depressed and worry everyday there continues to be contact between them. Any advice???