My wife of 12 years got a new job in a small office. She worked there a few months and many times she would be alone in there just her and her boss.
A few months into the job I notice that she is guarding her phone and texting allot more than usual. I did not think much of it because she texted already with her girl friends and such.
One Friday night I get home at around 10 pm. I had been out with a buddy, I stopped at the grocery store and picked her up a dozen roses to bring home that night. As I am walking in with the roses (a little earlier than she expected) her cell phone starts ringing and she answers it. She was acting kind of strange on the phone saying to the person on the other end that it was the wrong number. She hung up and I asked who it was...she said wrong #. She then put her phone down and I picked it up and noticed that her boss was the one that called at 10pm on Friday! I immediately questioned her and she lied to me about who called and even told me that it may of been him and he still had the wrong number...and did not mean to call her. I immediately sensed BS, grabbed the phone and a verbal and physical tug of war over the phone began. I got her admit she was talking to him outside of work about his marital problems. She said nothing more happened..
Next day I told her to call him in front of me and resign - she did....with great reluctance. (We did not need her job financially)
Over the next week and in dribs and drabs - more info came in from her.......Here is what she admitted.
- they has some mild sex chat including him saying to her that he pictured her on his living-room chair nude at his house with her legs spread
- talked about sex positions with lots of flirting mixed in.
- she even bought some lingerie and lace panties then called him to tell him "she went shopping"
- Multiple hugs at the office and 2 kisses on the cheek...
- they texted many times every day outside of work for the previous 3 weeks...(i confirmed this)
- She claims nothing else happened
All this I pried out of her. She claims she initiated the first hug..and told him "that felt better then she expected" She was the one that kissed him on the cheek. She admitted to me at the time she loved him, she told him so on more than one occasion, he never returned the comment.(according to her)
After promising no contact, 2 weeks later she called him - I catch her via a VAR in her car.
She lied about that contact until I let here hear the evidence! Next day she sent him a no contact letter....
It now been 5 months later...we are doing great and she has changed and seems to want us to work out.....but....
She denies over and over again nothing more happened and says that she was confused back then and has always loved me and realizes now that she did not love him....
I still wonder if it went further than the hugs and 2 kisses on the cheek....She denies to this day 5 months later....thoughts?
A few months into the job I notice that she is guarding her phone and texting allot more than usual. I did not think much of it because she texted already with her girl friends and such.
One Friday night I get home at around 10 pm. I had been out with a buddy, I stopped at the grocery store and picked her up a dozen roses to bring home that night. As I am walking in with the roses (a little earlier than she expected) her cell phone starts ringing and she answers it. She was acting kind of strange on the phone saying to the person on the other end that it was the wrong number. She hung up and I asked who it was...she said wrong #. She then put her phone down and I picked it up and noticed that her boss was the one that called at 10pm on Friday! I immediately questioned her and she lied to me about who called and even told me that it may of been him and he still had the wrong number...and did not mean to call her. I immediately sensed BS, grabbed the phone and a verbal and physical tug of war over the phone began. I got her admit she was talking to him outside of work about his marital problems. She said nothing more happened..
Next day I told her to call him in front of me and resign - she did....with great reluctance. (We did not need her job financially)
Over the next week and in dribs and drabs - more info came in from her.......Here is what she admitted.
- they has some mild sex chat including him saying to her that he pictured her on his living-room chair nude at his house with her legs spread
- talked about sex positions with lots of flirting mixed in.
- she even bought some lingerie and lace panties then called him to tell him "she went shopping"
- Multiple hugs at the office and 2 kisses on the cheek...
- they texted many times every day outside of work for the previous 3 weeks...(i confirmed this)
- She claims nothing else happened
All this I pried out of her. She claims she initiated the first hug..and told him "that felt better then she expected" She was the one that kissed him on the cheek. She admitted to me at the time she loved him, she told him so on more than one occasion, he never returned the comment.(according to her)
After promising no contact, 2 weeks later she called him - I catch her via a VAR in her car.
She lied about that contact until I let here hear the evidence! Next day she sent him a no contact letter....
It now been 5 months later...we are doing great and she has changed and seems to want us to work out.....but....
She denies over and over again nothing more happened and says that she was confused back then and has always loved me and realizes now that she did not love him....
I still wonder if it went further than the hugs and 2 kisses on the cheek....She denies to this day 5 months later....thoughts?