:rofl:How do you deal with it when you are embarrassed by them? You know when they show up at the kids' school events or dance recitals and you just don't want anyone to know that you married this idiot?
Maybe they'll think, "wow, look how he fell apart after his divorce...", or "huh, I can see why she divorced him..." or "oh, I need to do the laundry..."Here's the deal. He looks horrible. He wears over sized T shirts inside out, sometimes with holes. Wears over sized khaki pants with the cuffs rolled up. He has crazy hair, refuses to get it cut by a pro, it either looks dirty and greasy or fluffy and messy. He rarely shaves and has stubble that isn't cool. I don't know why bit a lot of times he has sores on his face. He isn't using neth because he is too over weight for that.
My daughter's brownie troop is having events that he has to take her to and I just don't want the other parents to know I was married to this weird slobby dirty idiot. Sigh.
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Sometime people are so embarrased about their ex and how they turned out to be At one time i know i was My ex turned out to have a major drug addiction and would not step up and become a parent when our daughter was born anyway i ended up divorcing her when our daughter was 2 and recieved full custody of her at 3 and she is know 21 and doing great her mother through out the years and been bouncing in and out of jail due to drugs at times i felt like i was embarrased about marring her and what not however i love my daughter to deathi feel rude saying this but i feel it needs to be said..
who cares what everyone else thinks of you and your ex? You aren't with him anymore and the reasons are plain to see...I don't think people go around looking at you and your ex thinking 'omg something is wrong with her,look what she married and divorced!!'
people are usually too self absorbed in their own world/issues/thoughts to concern themselves with the mess you aren't married to anymore.
this i can totally understand.I feel sorry for my child bc of how his father behaves in front of people.It sucks growing up with a parent you're ashamed ofHonestly I was thinking about it and it's not me, it's my daughter. I feel sorry her.
I hate that she had to be seen with him. Maybe that is horrible. I just can't believe it sometimes that he thinks this is ok.
Whatever, there is nothing I can do about it if he wants to look like a crazy homeless person.
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Devils advocate here.Honestly I was thinking about it and it's not me, it's my daughter. I feel sorry her. I just hope and pray that none of the kids say anything to her about how bad he looks.
He was like this when we started dating but he was in college, we had no money and it was the grunge era. I thought at some point he would grow up but he never did.
I hate that she had to be seen with him. Maybe that is horrible. I just can't believe it sometimes that he thinks this is ok.
Whatever, there is nothing I can do about it if he wants to look like a crazy homeless person.
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