I have been married for 17 year to a good guy. I knew when we got married that he drank. I have put up with him not coming home for an intire weekend so many time I can't give you a couint. I have kicked him out once because of his drinking. I took him back and he quit drinking for 3 months. He has accused me of cheating on him which I never did . He never seems to be home, he is always outhelping this person or that person and when he is at home he goes to bed at 7 o"clock and i am stuck with the kids. I don't think he is cheating on me but you never can tell. I told him we need to see a marriage counselor he laughed and said we don't need a counselor because there is no problem. He is fine when he does not drink. The kids hate thier father because of how he acts when he drinks. I want him to go but I know I can't take care of everything on the little bit of money that I make. Can any one help me with a little advice?