I am 4 months out in reconciliation and I done checking up. I am tired of stressing myself out. What will be will be. I have given everything that I can. If that is not good enough, then so be it. No more looking over my shoulder. I have figured out that I am worth more than I ever thought. 34 yrs old with 3 kids and I am still turning heads. I may not be the 20 yr old that was 5'9" and 120 pds, but I still have it. He can either see what he has to lose or search outside. I just dare him to get caught again.